Wakhe waziva ngathi wenziwa ngetissue paper ngelixa ilizwe lilapha phandle liphosa izitena?  Ewe, kunjalo.  Ukungabi   kuthetha ukuba ezo zitena ziyakutsibela. Akunjalo ngenxa yokuba uzenzele iindonga ngeenxa zonke, kodwa ngenxa yokuba wenze ihlabathi lakho langaphakathi liqinile, liyinjineli kakuhle, ukuba akukho nto inokuligungqisa. nangxaki  Awuzalwa unjalo.   . Isitena nge goddamn izitena. Uyakha  Ukufika apho, gxininisa kwinto endiyithandayo ukuyibiza ngokuba   . yiZiseko zeFortitude  ‍   ‍   Yile ndlela iziseko zakho zeFortitude ziya kuba namandla ngayo  Zilula. Abanakwaphuka. Kwaye ngabakho, akunamsebenzi nokuba ihlabathi likuphose ngantoni na.  Masingene kuyo.  1.  Hlala kuMjikelo wothando  Uthando asiyonto oyilindileyo. Yinto   . oyenzayo  Kwaye ukuba awuziniki kuqala, uya kuba nobunzima bokuyifumana kwenye indawo. Ukuzithanda akuzibhafu kunye namakhandlela anevumba elimnandi (ngaphandle kokuba yinto yakho leyo). Kukuzinika iziseko ozifunayo ukuze usebenze njengomntu ongafuni ukugqobhoza eludongeni yonke imihla.    (Okanye wonwabele ukuba yigoblin.) Fumana iiyure ezisi-7+ zokulala.    (Yenza istresi kunye nokuzithiya.) Hambisa umzimba wakho rhoqo.    (Hayi, ikofu kunye newhiskey azibali.) Sela amanzi.    (Uyazi ukuba ngoobani.) Sika iivampires zamandla.  Xa uzibeka phambili,   unothando kwimpompo. Naxa ihlabathi likukhonza yimfumba eqhumayo yenkunkuma. uhlala  2.  Yenza Ubomi Bube Ngumsebenzi Wobugcisa Obalaseleyo  Awudingi jethi yabucala okanye isixa semali ukuze ufumane ubuhle. Ubomi sele bunikezela simahla - ukuba uyazikhathaza ngokuqaphela.    Ihlabathi lizaliswe ngamaxesha anokukubetha emathunjini (ngendlela elungileyo). Yeka. Jonga kokukujikelezile.    (Lunyango lwendalo lwasimahla.) Bamba ukuphuma kwelanga okanye ukutshona kwelanga.    (Imithi yokwenyani. Ingca yokwenyani. Hayi nje izityalo zakho zasendlini.) Hamba kwindawo eluhlaza.    (Kwimyuziyam, kwiikona zezitrato, okanye umzobo ongaqhelekanga kwiofisi yakho yamazinyo.) Jonga ubugcisa.    (Iingoma ezilusizi, iingoma ze-hype - zonke ziyasebenza.) Umculo oqhumayo obetha umphefumlo wakho.  Ezi zihlandlo ziyi-sauce eyimfihlo. Bakukhumbuza ukuba ubomi abukho nje ii-imeyile, amatyala, kunye noloyiko olukhoyo.    . Nawe unjalo. Iyaphila  3.  Yondla ubuchopho bakho okanye ukubola  Ukuba awufundi, uyafa. Mhlawumbi kungekhona ngokoqobo, kodwa ingqondo yakho iyancipha njengesityalo sasekhaya esingahoywanga.  Ukufunda akwenzelwanga isikolo kuphela okanye abantu abafunda iincwadi zokuzinceda bathi “phakama usila” bengaphikisi. Yeyaye nabani na ofuna ukuhlala ebukhali ngokwaneleyo ukuba anqumle i-bullshit yobomi.  Yenza isiko lemihla ngemihla:    (Iincwadi, amanqaku, imingxunya yomvundla weReddit - yenza nje into ethile.) Funda imizuzu engama-30.    (Jika uhambo lwakho uye kwigumbi lokufundela.) Mamela ipodcast okanye iaudiobook.    (Nokuba-ngakumbi-iimpundu.) Phatha wonke umntu ngokungathi unento afuna ukukufundisa yona.    (Iimpazamo zizifundo nje ezifihlakeleyo.) Khupha kwaye ufunde kuyo.  Akuyomfuneko ukuba ufunde ngokukhawuleza. Kufuneka nje ufunde   . rhoqo   Ekuseni: Misela isiseko sakho  Xa uvuka, zihlabe ngezi ntsika zi-3:   Ndiza kuzihoya namhlanje.   Ndiza kufumana into entle namhlanje.   Ndizakufunda into namhlanje.  Zibhale phantsi. Zisebezele kuwe. Bakhwaze esipilini. Nantoni na esebenzayo.   Ngokuhlwa: Qhuba uQhakamshelwano  Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ebusuku, zibuze:   Ndizibonakalise njani namhlanje?   Bubuphi ubuhle endibuvumeleyo namhlanje?   Ndifunde ntoni namhlanje (nokuba ibinzima)?  Yenza oku ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ezi ndlela zokuziqhelanisa aziyi kuba sisiqhelo nje - ziya kuba   . A wena oqinileyo. A wena ongenakwaphuka. nguwe   Ilizwi lokugqibela  Jonga. Ihlabathi aliyi kuyeka ukuphosa ikaka ngendlela yakho. Abantu baya kuba ziimpundu. Amacebo aya kuqhawuka. Ubomi buya kukumfamekisa xa ungalindelanga.  Kodwa ukuba uyakha ezi   , akukho nanye eya kukuqhekeza. ziSeko zeFortitude  Uya kuba ngumntu ohamba kwisiphithiphithi esinentsini, ukhuphe i-bullshit ngokungathi luthuli egxalabeni lakho, kwaye uqhubeke uhamba nantoni na.  Uya kuba yinqaba yakho.  Engachukunyiswanga.  Unf*ckwithable.  Kwaye ngokunyaniseka? Leyo yindlela entle kakhulu yokuphila. Thembela, ndiye macala omabini odonga.  Kude kube lixesha elizayo✌️  uBen.

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