(Ukuba ubomi uqhuba kwi-face yakho) Ngaba uyazi le ndingathanda ebomvu xa kukho into ebomvu kwaye ngoko ke ungenza ukuba ngubani nawe? Yeah – kuye. iminyaka emininzi, idilesi yam iimveliso zethu Ukucinga Yinto yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo yayo. Ukusuka kwakhona. Xa ndidlulanga, hhayi nje ndidlulanga umsebenzi - ndidlulanga. No title. No day-to-day structure. No adrenaline ukususela iingxaki. Ukungcweliswa kuphela, kunye nesisombululo esebenzayo emzimbeni wabhala: “Ngoko ke... Yintoni?” Kwaye ngexesha ndingathanda into eyayibandakanya indlela ndingathanda umntu ngexesha elide: (Ndiya, kubonakala njengoko into evela kumadokhumenti yakho yebhizinisi. Kodwa ufunde nam.) Identity diversification. What the Hell Is Identity Diversification? Yintoni i-Hell Is Identity Diversification? Yintoni oku kuthetha: Don’t bet your entire sense of self on one thing. Xa zonke iimvakalelo zakho ze-identity zihlanganisa kwikhosini elinye - umsebenzi yakho, ubumnandi yakho, umdla wakho njengomdla, okanye i-six-pack yakho - kufuneka nje ukuchitha ukuba uqhagamshelane. Izixhobo ezininzi. Izixhobo ezincinane. Umntu omnqweno? Zifumaneka Iipileli ze-identity – ngoko ke xa umntu uqhuba, yonke into akuyona. Ukucinga Think of It Like This: Ubomi yakho yintlobo. Yonke umnxeba - umnxeba, umbhali, umbhali, umnxeba, umnxeba, umnxeba, nayiphi na into - i-been. I-table with one leg? Wobbly like hell. I-table with five? Ungayithanda i-ball ye-bowling kwaye iya kuba. Yinto yinto. How to Build More Legs (Without Losing Your Mind) Indlela ukuvelisa izibane ezininzi (ukunciphisa ingqondo yakho) Step 1: Audit Your Identity Isisombululo 1: Qhagamshelana ne-identity yakho Nceda uxhomekeke: “If I stopped doing what I do today, who would I be tomorrow? "Ukuba impendulo i-" Ngaba ndingathanda, "ukwamkelwa. Ngaba akuyona nje. Kwaye ixesha ukuvelisa. Step 2: Follow the Curiosity Isisombululo 2: Nceda uqhagamshelane neCuriosity Yenza le mfuneko: Ukucinga Ukucinga Ukucinga Ukucinga Ukucinga Ukucinga Yintoni iingcamango ngaphandle kokusebenza? Yintoni i-energizer? Yintoni i-energizer? Yintoni i-energizer? Yintoni ndingathanda ukuba ndingathanda kodwa ndingathanda? Yintoni iimpawu ndithanda ukuba ndithande (ukuba kuphela kwi-LinkedIn)? Yintoni iinkalo zithembisa ukuba ndingathanda? Emva koko, isebenza ingxoxo Yintoni Fumana umxholo. Fumana umxholo. Volunteer. Yenza into. Ngaba unako. Akukho ngenxa yentlawulo. Akukho ngenxa yentlawulo. Kwaye nje ngenxa yintlawulo Yintoni Step 3: Protect Your Identity from Burnout Isinyathelo 3: Ukukhusela idivayisi yakho ukususela Burnout Yinto akuyona ukwenza ngaphezulu Kwimeko yokwenza into enikezela isikhwama yakho kunokuba ukutya. Ngaba ungenza i-15 iibhodi ezintsha. Ungenza iinkcukacha Ukucinga Ngaba ufuna iziganeko ezininzi. Ufuna Ukuxhaswa Ukucinga Qhagamshelana. Qhagamshelana. Qhagamshelana. A Quick Reality Check Ukubuyekezwa kwe-Reality Uya kuba ukuphazamiseka. Ingaba uya kuba ndingathanda ukuba "ukutshintshela ixesha. "Ngaba uya kubona ukuba kunzima. Uyazi, "Yintoni ingxaki ukuba ngaba ndingathanda imali kwakhona?" Yinto ingxaki: Ngaba ukwakha i-version ye-imeyile enokufutshane xa i-part of your life yenza i-nucleed. Yintoni i-Luxe. Yintoni i-Insurance. Final Thought Imibuzo lokugqibela I-Identity yakho kufuneka yintoni i-portfolio ephilayo. Ukuvuthwa. Ukuvuthwa. Ukukhusela ngokufanelekileyo kwi-volatility. Ngenxa yokuba inkonzo yakho ayidlulanga. I six-pack yakho ayikho. Kwiminyaka emininzi, izinto ezidumileyo ziyafumaneka. Yintoni unayo? Ngaba unako ukuxhaswa kwinto eyodwa. Kwakhona kufuneka Ngaphezulu Kwixesha elandelayo, Ukucinga

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