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Life’s under no obligation to give us what we expect!

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@abhishek-shahAbhishek Shah


The factor of failure is a state that is impracticable to avoid, & one has to overcome the condition to win the victory. One usually encounters losing hope to winning the victory at this stage. But a person who wins over the tough situations realises to the end why those terrible conditions were meant to be a part of life. They teach us a lot. The devastating experiences are to endure because they turn you so strong that there’s no getting back.

However, while pushing ourselves to the goals, it is entirely possible that we may lose hope. There is no expectation of good things to happen. One has to have positive belief and faith to work well in the long run.

There are good and bad times

There are both good, and the bad times one empowers in life. However, one good might be bad for the other, and one bad might be good to someone else. This is entirely dependent on what your priorities are and what you look forward to in life. Good and evil is headed to the situations based on what you face in life. We tend to rate them as good and bad. Thus, there are good and bad times, both with whoever works for success. Things will be right or wrong, but the life goes on. One has to accept the entirety to live their lives. Focusing on the negative shall turn out everything to be negative but taking the bad as a real challenge leads us to make bad into good.

Tips to avoid losing hope in life

Re-evaluate the situation

In order to prevent losing faith, the circumstances require reassessment. Find out one or two alternative ways to perform the job. Though there are situations where failure makes us so depressed that we tend to lose hope, one has to keep their minds relaxed as such circumstances to gain the victory. Re-evaluation helps us find a number of reasons to the failure and helps us move forward without losing hope in life. While re-evaluating, always make sure to answer the three W’s, i.e., what, when and why. Answer all these questions, and it is these answers that help you analyse further. Look at the situation with a different view to get a different solution.

Stay grateful

Usually, we start comparing ourselves with others. We realise we do not have what the other has. But a person does not realise how lucky he is to get a 4-time meal for himself and his family. Think of the people who die out of starvation and illness. Every minute 5 children die in this world. Think of these situations and harbor gratitude to what you have. Life is much harder for people who weren’t fortunate enough to even afford what you have. Always dream of more, but work on it. Don’t lose hope on your failures. Appreciating things take you all together to a new level.

Stay honest

Once you are honest with yourself, you’ll be bold to face any situation. No matter what you dream to get, staying honest with yourself will help, you accomplish your dreams no matter what situation comes across to fail you. Honesty takes one to a happier, healthier and better ways to achieve your goals.

Look for support from others

Look for people who can speak to you transmitting positive vibes. Look for the ones who can suggest you positive solutions and can give you hope, encouragement, and support. Usually, people find their family as the biggest support for their work in progress. Thus, while there is something wrong you face, speak to your family members and look forward to their suggestions. This keeps you motivated and avoids you losing hope in life.

A person who has come across a similar situation what you are going through can be another great support. He can explain you what failures mean to success and how to move forward. Thus, talking to people transmitting positive vibes can be a tremendous help in your bad times. The biggest mistake one does is to sit in isolation. The staying alone factor makes you feel more depressed and hopeless. Thus, it is imperative that you speak to people who can get you feel confident and motivated to move further in life.

Have faith

No matter in what God you believe in, have faith that you can overcome any circumstance no matter how hard it would be. Though it is imperative to talk to people to motivate you, there should also be an inner feeling of working hard. Have faith to avoid losing hope. The spiritual belief that “I can do it” is highly imperative to keep working for good to come.

Final word

Done let things defeat you. In fact, manage the unfavorable situations as your strength to win the victory. Everyone goes through the tough situations in life. Find out about the great legends who have and are doing well in the society after facing all the tough times. Let them be your inspiration while you work hard to achieve success without losing hope in life.

Suggested Reads

1. Anxious for Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World

2. You are a Badass (Deluxe Edition): How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life

3. The Power of Positive Thinking

4. Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life

5. Finding the Gift: Daily Meditations for Mindfulness

6. Think Like a Warrior: The Five Inner Beliefs That Make You Unstoppable

7. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

8. The Motivation Switch: 77 Ways to Get Motivated, Avoid Procrastination, and Achieve Success

9. Leading from Purpose: Clarity and the Confidence to Act When It Matters Most

10. Through the Eyes of a Lion: Facing Impossible Pain, Finding Incredible Power

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