It's Important to Plan for the Future, But Don’t Prescribe It

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ur definition of 'goal setting' isn't what it used to be. Somewhere along the line, we got it twisted – and now, kids who have barely got their driver's license are expected to plan their entire future.  We carry this pressure into adulthood, too. I know plenty of people who have nailed down exactly where they're (allegedly) going to be in five years' time. Despite the supposed benefits of future planning, they're very stressed individuals.  Here's what I think happens. Job titles, cities, and companies are all tangible things we can grasp with our minds. It's easy to say, "I plan to be a Senior Vice President of something-or-other at this company in five years" – so we hold on tight to those specifics.  The problem is that, in prescribing a future for yourself, you leave little room for unexpected opportunities or a change of heart. You box yourself in when there was never a need to use boxes in the first place.  Let me dig into this a little deeper – you'll see what I mean.