Ngaba ukhe waba kwincoko apho uziva ngathi ingqondo yakho iyanyibilika?  Uyalwazi uhlobo. Uthetha inqaku - ngokuzolileyo, ngokuqiqayo, mhlawumbi nangomtsalane onomtsalane - kwaye ngequbuliso urhaxwa ngamaza obudenge.  Ukuhlaselwa komntu.  Izigqibo ezimbi.  Uhlobo lwengqiqo eyenza ukuba uzibuze ukuba omnye umntu usandul 'ukulimala entloko.  Iyacaphukisa. Ikwenza ukuba ufune ukujika itafile kwaye ukhwaze:  ‍   ‍  Kodwa nantsi into: Ngamanye amaxesha awukwazi ukubaphepha aba bantu. Mhlawumbi ngumphathi wakho. Mhlawumbi sisihlobo osibona ngeeholide kuphela.  Mhlawumbi ngumfana osemgceni evenkileni ocinga ukuba ungowesibini ukuza kuka-Aristotle kuba ufunde isihloko esinye kuFacebook.  Kule mizuzu, udinga izixhobo. Hayi ukuba "ukuphumelela" ingxabano - kuba isiqingatha sexesha, ukuphumelela kuthetha nje ukuchitha amandla amaninzi - kodwa ukugcina ingqondo yakho kwaye ungalahlekelwa ukholo kwiintlobo.  Nantsi   abantu abayisebenzisayo kunye nendlela yokuyiqhaqha ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yingqondo yakho (okanye umphefumlo wakho). i-8 yeyona migibe yengqiqo ekhohlisayo  ‍   1. I-Ad Hominem   I-Classic Shot etshiphu kakhulu.  Kunokuba baphikise ngengongoma yakho,   . Kuba kutheni ukujongana nengxabano yokwenyani xa banokuthatha ujingi kumlingiswa wakho? bayakuxoxa    Wena: “Ndicinga ukuba le nkampani kufuneka yamkele izenzo ezizinzileyo. "Them: "Oh, uvela kulaa mfo usaqhuba igas guzzler?" Umzekelo:    “Ukuqhuba igas guzzler akuyitshintshi into yokuba uzinzo lubalulekile. Mhlawumbi makhe sigxile kulo mbono endaweni yemoto yam.” Ikhawuntari:    Yeka ukwenza lento ngam. Uhanahaniso lwam (olwenyani okanye olucingelwayo) aluyenzi ibengcono ingxoxo yakho. Inguqulelo:  ‍   2. Indoda yeendiza   Ukwakha iScarecrow, emva koko Uyitshise.  Kuxa umntu ethatha le nto uyithethileyo, ayijije ibe yicaricature ehlekisayo, aze akhanyise obo bubudenge endaweni yenqaku lakho lokwenyani.    Wena: "Ndicinga ukuba umsebenzi okude unenzuzo yawo. "Them: "Ngoko ufuna nje wonke umntu ahlale ekhaya ngeepijama kwaye angaze aphinde athethe nomnye umntu?" Umzekelo:    “Khange ndiyithethe lonto. Umsebenzi ukude awuthethi ukuba likheswa ekuhlaleni. Kuthetha ukuba bhetyebhetye. Izinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo kakhulu. " Counter:    Musa ukunditshova amagama emlonyeni emva koko wenze ngathi uliqhawe ngokuwahlafuna. Uguqulo :   3. Ithambeka eliMtyibilizi   Ingxoxo “Yonke Iza Kuwa”.  Olunye utshintsho oluncinci, kwaye ngequbuliso siwela kwi-apocalypse. Kuba kutheni ujongana ne-nuance xa unokuqikelela intshabalalo?    Wena: “Kufuneka sivumele iiyure zokusebenza eziguquguqukayo. Bona: "Ewe, kwaye into elandelayo uyazi, akukho mntu uza kusebenza konke, kwaye uluntu luya kutshabalala." Umzekelo:    “Iiyure ezibhetyebhetye azithethi ukuba abantu bayeke ukusebenza. Kuthetha ukuba basebenza ngobukrelekrele. Masingatsibeki kwizigqibo zikaMad Max.” Ikhawuntari:    Zola, Nostradamus. Inyathelo elinye eliya phambili alisoloko likhokelela eweni. Inguqulelo:   4. I-Bandwagon Fallacy   Ukuba Bonke Abanye Batsibe Kwibhulorho...  Lo ufana nengcinezelo yoontanga ngendlela yokuxambulisana. Kungenxa yokuba wonke umntu ekholelwa ukuba ayenzi ukuba yinyani.    Bona: "Wonke umntu endimaziyo uthi oku kutya kuyasebenza, ngoko ke kufuneka kulunge kuwe." Umzekelo:    “Iqela labantu abakholelwa kwinto ethile ayiyenzi ibe yinyani. Wonke umntu wayecinga ukuba umhlaba uthe tyaba. Ikhawuntari:    Ukuduma ngumgwebi ombi wenyaniso. Buza nawuphi na umntwana wesikolo esiphakathi. Uguqulelo:   5. Isibheno kwiGunya   Kuba "Ingcali" Yatsho njalo.  Ukutsala kwigama elikhulu elinothi wesihloko.    Bona: "Umhlohli wam weyoga uthi esi sesona sicwangciso sotyalo-mali." Umzekelo:    "Umqeqeshi wakho weyoga unokwazi ukwenza inja esezantsi egqibeleleyo, kodwa andicingi ukuba nguWarren Buffett." Ikhawuntari:    Ibali elimnandi. Ngoku makhe sive kumntu oyaziyo into ayithethayo. Inguqulelo:   6. I-Dichotomy yobuxoki   Khetha icala. Babini kuphela.  Oku kuxa bebilisa umba ontsonkothileyo ukuya kukhetho olubi olubi. Kukucinga okonqenayo okuguqulwe njengokuthatha isigqibo.    Bona: "Inokuba ungumntu wekati okanye inja." Umzekelo:    “Okanye — ndive — ndingazithanda   . Okanye akunjalo. Kuba ubomi abuyiyo imuvi kaDisney. " Ikhawuntari: zombini    Kukho ngaphezu kwencasa enye ye-ayisikrimu. Yeka ukundenza ndikhethe phakathi kwevanilla kunye nevanilla. Inguqulelo:  ‍   7. I-Red Herring   Jonga Ngaphaya!  Baphosa into engabalulekanga ngokupheleleyo ukuba ikuphazamise kwisihloko sokwenyani. Yingxabano elingana nosana olubonisa into emenyezelayo.    “Ndicinga ukuba umgangatho wekhamera kule fowuni awumhle. "Them: "Ewe, kodwa yiva ukuba umhle kangakanani uyilo!" Umzekelo:    “Uyilo luhle, kodwa sithetha ngekhamera. Hlala nam apha. Ikhawuntari:    Yeka ukuzama ukutshintsha umxholo. Andikho lula kangako ukuphazamisa. Inguqulelo:  ‍   8. Isizathu Sobuxoki   Izinto ezimbini zenzekile, ngoko ke kufuneka zinxulumane.  Into yokuba izinto ezimbini zenzeka kunye ayithethi ukuba enye ibangele enye. Unxulumano asiyosizathu.    Ngalo lonke ixesha ndinxiba ihempe, iqela lam liyaphumelela. Yihempe yam yethamsanqa!” Umzekelo:    “Okanye iqela lakho linobuchule kwezemidlalo. Ihempe yakho ayiyonxalenye yoluhlu.” Ikhawuntari:    Iziganeko ezenzekayo ziyenzeka. Ihempe yakho ayingomlingo. Uxolo. Uguqulo:   Uzigcina njani ezi Ncoko ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yingqondo    Ukuba neemvakalelo kufana nokubanika ipasi simahla ukuze bakugxothe. Phefumla. Yenza istoic sakho sangaphakathi. Zola:    Qiniseka ukuba uyayiqonda   le nto bayithethayo ngaphambi kokuba uphendule. Ukungaqondi kwabo kubanika i-ammo. Mamela Kakhulu: kakuhle    Yazi obu buxoki njengomva wesandla sakho. Okukhona uzibona, kokukhona ziya kukukhubekisa kancinci. Zilungiselele:    Iingxoxo ezicacileyo ziyaphumelela. Ukuntsokotha yingxolo nje. Gcina Ilula:    Ukuba incoko ayihambi ndawo kwaye nokuba nengqondo kwakho kusemngciphekweni, hamba. Ingcebiso yeBhonasi:  AKUKHO namnye owakha wakhangela emva kubomi bakhe waza wacinga,  “Akwaba bendikhe ndaxambulisana nezidenge ezingakumbi.”   Ingcamango yokugqibela  Ezi zixhobo aziyi kukunceda nje kwiingxabano. Ziya kukunceda   .  ezo zingenanjongo uphephe  Kwaye kwihlabathi apho ukuphikisana kwi-intanethi kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ngamandla amakhulu lawo.  Ke phuma, ukhusele ingqondo yakho, kwaye mhlawumbi-mhlawumbi-ukunceda ukudala ilizwe apho abantu bacinga ngaphambi kokuba bathethe.  Okanye hayi. Ubuncinane   kuba krelekrele. uya  Kude kube lixesha elizayo✌️  uBen.  ‍

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