Vana Havafanire Kugutsikana: Nyaya Inopesana Nevana Vanofurira

Akazvarwa pamberi pevateereri mhenyu.

- Christof, The Truman Show

Iko hakuna bhaisikopo rinofanotaura ramangwana zviri nani pane zvandinoda, "The Truman Show."

MuThe Truman Show, Hupenyu hwaTruman Burbank chiitiko chakagadzirwa zvine hungwaru. Anokurira munyika isiri yake, yakakomberedzwa nemakamera akavanzika anotora nguva yega yega yevaraidzo yemamiriyoni, inodzorwa uye kutepfenyurwa kubva pakuzvarwa nesangano risingaoneki. Asi anobva azarura chidzitiro chenhema zvishoma nezvishoma uye kuedza kutiza.

Panguva yekuburitswa kwebhaisikopo, zvaiita sekutsoropodza kuri kure kwekushandiswa kwenhau uye voyeurism. Asi nhasi, inorava seyambiro yechiporofita sezvo mitsetse iri pakati pehupenyu hwemunhu nevaraidzo yeruzhinji inonyungudika.

Truman Show yakanga iri yambiro pamusoro penyika umo kuvanzika kuri manyepo, uye zvino tinozviwana timene tichigara munyika iyoyo—nguva ino bedzi, ndeyechokwadi, uye vana vedu vari pakati pechiratidziro.

Tiri kurarama muzera umo hupenyu hwevana huri kuramba huchigadziridzwa kune zvirimo, kwete negiant media giant, asi nevabereki vavo chaivo. Kusimuka kwe "vlogging yemhuri" uye "kugovana" kwashandura hudiki kuita chishamiso, kuenderera mberi kwenhanho dzekutanga, mabiko ekuzvarwa, uye kunyangwe kuparara kwemanzwiro - zvese zvakanyatsochengeterwa kufarira, maonero, uye kutsigira. Vana ava havasi vatambi vari kubhadharwa kuti vaite basa; vari vatori vechikamu vasingazivi muchiratidzo chechokwadi che24/7, kazhinji vasina chavanoti mumararamiro avo anoratidzwa kana kuita mari.

Izvi zvine simba zvemazuva ano zvinopa mibvunzo isingafadzi: Chii chinoitika kana kuzivikanwa kwemwana kuchiumbwa kwete nezviitiko zvepachivande asi nedzvinyiriro yekuitira vateereri veruzhinji? Vari kuvandudza pfungwa yavo yekuzvida here kana kuumbwa kuita zvinhu zvinotengeswa? Uye pamwe zvinonyanya kunetsa, ndezvipi zvinokonzeresa zvenguva refu pavana vanokandwa munzvimbo yedhijitari vasati vatombozvitaurira?

1. Vana vanokwezva zvine simba

Vana vanopesvedzera vave chikamu chakakosha chesocial media landscape. Nhamba dzichangoburwa dzinoratidza kuti musika wepasi rose wepesvedzera, kusanganisira vanofurira vana, unofungidzirwa kusvika pamadhora mazana maviri nemakumi maviri nemazana maviri emadhora panosvika 2025.

Isu tinoda vanofurira vana nekuti vanopa musanganiswa wekusava nemhosva, huchokwadi, uye varaidzo inopindirana zvakanyanya nevateereri. Munzvimbo yedhijitari umo zvakawanda zvemukati zvinonzwa zvakanatswa uye zvakagadzirirwa, vana vanowanzomiririra vhezheni, isina kupepetwa yehupenyu iyo inonzwa yechokwadi uye inowirirana. Vangave vari kutaura zvekutamba zvavo, zvavanoita, kana nguva dzemazuva ose, vanofurira vana vanopa muono wemufaro usingarambiki uye kuda kuziva, izvo vanhu vakuru vakawanda vanoona zvichizorodza. Ndiani asingade kuchena kwemwana?

Vana vanopindawo mupfungwa yekushuva. Kuvaona vachiongorora nyika uye vachizvitaura zvinotiyeuchidza nezvezviitiko zvedu zvehudiki, zvichipa kudzoka kwakanaka kunguva dzakareruka. Kufara kwavo kwemaziso makuru, kuseka, uye kusafungira zvinogona kumutsa manzwiro emufaro nekunyaradzwa, zvichigadzira kubatana kwemanzwiro kunofambisa kubatikana.

Vabereki vanowanzotevera vapesvedzeri vevana kune matipi ekurera vana, kurudziro yechigadzirwa, kana kungoita pfungwa yenharaunda yavanopa, nepo vateereri vadiki vachienderana navo sevezera ravo kana mienzaniso.

Kubva pakuona kwekushambadzira, vana vanofurira vane simba rakawanda nekuti vanokwezva kuruzhinji rwevanhu. Anenge munhu wese anoda kunaka kwevacheche uye vacheche, kunyanya kune anozivikanwa seanofurira. Saka ava vapesvedzeri vanoyevedza kumhando, vachibhadhara mari yakawanda nekuda kwekusimbisa kwevana vavo zvigadzirwa.

2. Zvitatu zvinokatyamadza zvemwana anofurira

Kutaura nezvevapesvedzera vevana pane midhiya itikiti rakavimbiswa rekupokana kwepamhepo. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti nzvimbo yese imvura yakasviba, ine nyonga nyonga yezvinonetsa. Kazhinji kazhinji, nemaune kana kusaziva, vari kushandisa makangaidzo aya kuti vazvidzivirire kubva pakutsoropodzwa nemakakatanwa. Zvitatu zvinokatyamadza hazvisati zvagadziriswa munzvimbo yevanofurira vana:

• gangaidzo 1: kushanda uye kutamba
• gangaidzo 2: kuzvitonga uye kutonga
• gangaidzo 3: kuvanzika uye kubudirira

Makakatanwa aya anonetsa kugadzirisa nekuti anowanikwa mukati memakakatanwa makuru emagariro pamusoro pehudiki, kushanda, kuzvitonga, uye kuvanzika. Indasitiri yepesvedzero inosundira miganhu isati yanyatsogadziriswa kana kudzorwa, ichisiya kupokana uku pamwoyo wemakakatanwa pamusoro pevanofurira vana.

Paradox 1: shanda uye tamba

Kubatanidza vana nebasa kunogona kumutsa moto unopisa munzvimbo dzenhau. Chibvumirano chavose ndechekuti kuchengetedza vana, vanofanira kuchengetwa kuti vasazoshanda kusvika pazera rakati. Ichi ndicho chikonzero vabereki vevagadziri vezvinyorwa zvevana vanowanzoti mwana wavo ari kutamba kwete kushanda.

Dambudziko nderekuti hapana tsananguro imwe chete yekutamba, zvichida nekuda kwekusaziva kwayo, iyo inosiyana zvichienderana nemaonero emunhu. Kunyanya zvakanyanya, kutamba kunoonekwa sekunakidza, kusununguka-mweya, semwana, uye kunotungamirwa nekurudziro yemukati. Kunakidzwa ndiko kwakakosha.

Kuburikidza nekutamba, vana vanochinjanisa tsandanyama dzavo dzekugadzira, dzidza kushandirapamwe, kugadzirisa matambudziko, uye kusvika pakunzwisisa ivo nenyika. Inotoonekwa sekodzero yakakosha, inosvika kunzvimbo yekutamba yedhijitari. Nekudaro, Garwood anonongedza kuti kutamba zvakare i "basa" rekuve mwana, izvo zvinoomesa pfungwa yese yekusava nehanya uye kusunungura.

Nyaya yenyika yaRyan: izere nekutamba kana yakazara nebasa?

Ryan's World inzira yakakurumbira yeYouTube yakanangana nevana. Ryan anobva kuRyan's World ndiye mumwe wevanowana zvakanyanya, kana asiri iye anotambira zvakanyanya paYouTube . Iyi chiteshi inoratidzira mudiki Ryan Kaji, vabereki vake (Loann naShion Kaji), uye mapatya ake (Emma naKate). Inowanzo kuburitsa mavhidhiyo matsva zuva nezuva.

Forbes yakaratidza kuti Ryan Kaji akaita madhora gumi nerimwe kubva muna 2016 kusvika 2017, ari wechisere akabhadhara zvakanyanya paYouTube panguva iyoyo. Akatonga runyorwa muna 2018, 2019, na2020, achiwana madhora mazana maviri nemaviri, madhora makumi maviri nematanhatu, uye mamirioni makumi maviri neshanu emadhora, zvichiteerana, kubva kumavhidhiyo ake nezvimwe zvinhu zvine hukama.

Unboxing anotsigirwa matoyi anogona kuita sekunakidza kwakachena kune anofurira mwana, izvo zvinogona kuita kuti zviite sekutamba. Asi, chokwadi, hazvisi nyore kudaro. Zvinyorwa zvinotsigirwa zvinoruma zvakanyanya mukutamba ikoko, kuchikanganisa nebasa-mazuva ekupedzisira, zvinotarisirwa, uye, ngatisakanganwa, kubhadhara.

Toy unboxing mavhidhiyo anowanzo ratidza chinhu 'chakaitwa' sezvo vashambadziri vachitarisira izvo zvinogadzirwa nevana vanofurira. Zvakadaro, vana vanonyatsonzwa kufara kubva kumatoyi avanoratidza. Kuzadzisa zvinodiwa nevashambadziri, vana vanofurira vana vanofanirwa kutevedzera zvinyorwa, kusangana nenguva dzemushandirapamwe, uye kuwana mvumo kubva kumhando.

Saka, kunyangwe ichiita sekutamba, haigone kurongeka seyakadaro nekuti inewo hunhu hwebasa. Izvi zvinogadzira kudyidzana kusinganzwisisike, uko vanotamba nenyanzvi vari mativi maviri emari imwe chete. Asi, kuidaidza kuti basa chairo zvakare inopotsa chiratidzo, nekuti-zvakanaka-ichiri kutamba, shure kwezvose.

Ko Karl Marx anofungei nezvevanofurira vana?

Karl Marx anosiyanisa basa sechiito chemahara, chakakosha kunharaunda dzese, nepo basa ibasa rine chinangwa, rinogadzira kukosha uko mushandi anorasikirwa nemuridzi wekugadzira uye anofanirwa kutengesa simba ravo rebasa. Kutengeswa kwesimba revashandi kunoreva kutengwa kwevashandi, umo vashandi vanotengeserana kugona kwavo kushanda kuti vawane chinhu kubva kumacapitalist.

Marx anopokana kuti kana basa richibatwa sechinhu, zvinotungamira mukuparadzaniswa kwevashandi kubva mumaitiro ebasa ravo. Kubiridzira uye kutorwa kune hukama hwepedyo, nekusarudzika kuri zvese mamiriro uye mugumisiro wekushandiswa. Ichi chikamu chakakosha che capitalism.

Nekudaro, vanhu vanogadzira zvemukati uye kuzviisa pasocial media vanobatanidzwa mukushanda muhupfumi hwehupfumi. Maitiro ekutengesa aripo mudhijitari capitalist system, ichimisikidza kusarudzika kune vanogadzira zvemukati paYouTube. Nepo YouTube ichibvumira vanogadzira zvemukati kuita mari, kudyidzana nevateereri vavo, uye kuratidza hunyanzvi hwavo, vagadziri vanoiswawo pasi pealgorithmic system nemitemo yepuratifomu.

Shoko rokuti ‘kushandiswa kwevana’ rinoreva kushandiswa kwevana zvisina kufanira, kuchivatorera uduku hwavo, dzidzo, uye kukura kwavo kwose. Chaizvoizvo, kushandiswa kwevana kunokuvadza zvose zviri zviviri kukura kwomwana mumuviri nomupfungwa. Saizvozvo, vana vanobatanidzwa musocial media vanosangana nenjodzi dzakafanana nedzechinyakare vana vanoita, kusanganisira kusachengeteka kwemari, njodzi dzehutano, uye kurasikirwa kukuru kwekuvanzika.

Zvakadaro mitemo iripo yevashandi vevana haione vapesvedzeri vevana sevashandi vevana, zvisinei nenguva yavo uye kushanda nesimba mukugadzira zvemukati, zvinova nzira dzebasa.

Kunyangwe basa rekupesvedzera risingabatanidzi njodzi dzakangofanana nedzevana vanoshanda mumigodhi kana zvitoro zvinoyerera, pane zvingangoitika zvenguva refu zvakashata kubva pakuramba uri mumeso everuzhinji. Izvi zvinosimbisa pfungwa yokuti kushandiswa kwevana kwemazuva ano kwakashanduka kuva chimiro chitsva.

Mitsetse isina kujeka pakati pebasa nekutamba

Huchokwadi hwekutamba kunowedzera kunetsana kwevashandi nekutamba, zvichiburitsa gangaidzo rinopfuura. De Veirman et al. taura kuti 'anofurira haanyepedzeri kutamba uye kunakidzwa nematoyi; anoita chaizvo'.

Kungoitika kwakanyatsogadzirwa kwekutamba kwevana kunotsigirwa kungabva pavana vari kuedza kuita zvinotarisirwa nevabereki, zvichiguma nebasa repfungwa. Basa repfungwa rinosanganisira kushandura manzwiro emunhu uye matauriro ekunze kuti aenderane nezvinodikanwa zvepfungwa uye zvepfungwa zverimwe basa kana nharaunda.

Pfungwa yomutambo inosimudzira pfungwa yokusununguka uye kunakidzwa—kusiyana nebasa. Asi, kana tichitaura chokwadi, basa harisi basa chete, uye kutamba kwevana hakusi kwekutamba chete. Kune kunyange mhando yemitambo yemavhidhiyo ine chinangwa chega kutevedzera basa redu muhupenyu chaihwo.

Masterson anopokana kuti kugadzirwa kwemukati kwevana "hakungonzi kutamba - ibasa." Kusimbirira kuti mutambo ndewekutamba chete kunosimbisa bhinari yechinyakare yebasa maringe nekutamba, apo, pachokwadi, dzinogara dziri pamwe chete muchiitiko che'zvose/uye'.

Kutamba kunowanzobatanidza zviitiko zvakafanana nebasa. Vadzidzi vegiredhi rekutanga nerechipiri vakanzwa kufara uye kumanikidzwa apo vadzidzisi vavo vakavakurudzira kupedza migove yavo yokupenda.

Zvakangofanana munyika yedhijitari yevanofurira vana - vatsoropodzi venhau vanopokana kuti kushandira mhando kunobira vana ava hudiki hwavo.

Sekureva kwaWK Smith naLewis, urwu ndirwo rudzi rwegangaidzo apo zvinhu zvinoita sezvine musoro pazviri zvega, asi zvisina musoro zvachose kana zviripo pamwechete. Uye pano tine vana, vari kuita zvinoita sekutamba kusinganetseki, vese vachibhadharwa nekuda kwekuedza kwavo. Mitsara iri pakati pekutamba neprofessional obligation blur, ichitidonhedza mune inogona kungotsanangurwa se 'grey zone.'

Pakupera kwezuva, chinosarudza kana [chinhu chaicho] ichi chiri chekutamba chemwana kana kuti kwete ndechekuti anofarira zvepachokwadi kuzviita here kana kuti kwete.

Kutamba nomunun’una wavo kunogona kuva basa; kukorobha pasi kunogona kutamba.

Kunakidzwa ndiko kwakakosha.

Paradox 2: kuzvitonga uye kutonga

Haufungi here kuti mwana ari mukireshi anogona chaizvo kuita bhizimisi rinoita mamiriyoni akawanda emadhora, handizvo here? Kugona. Chokwadi, vamwe vanhu vakuru vanopindira. Kazhinji kazhinji vabereki vavo.

Vana vanoda kuzvimiririra uye kutaura zvavanoda, asi nekuda kwekuti vana mbeveve mune zvesainzi, zvinodawo kutarisirwa kwevabereki uye kudzorwa. Zvinhu zviviri izvi zvinorambana, uye zvakanyanya kune vanofurira vana. Hukama hwemwana nemubereki mune iyi kesi inofanana nehukama hweK-Pop chidhori nekambani yavo yekutarisira.

Chinhu chekutanga chinodzorwa nevabereki ndechekuti mwana ari kuoneka sei pachiratidziri. Kwete chitarisiko chake chete. Mwana ari iye pachake haisi nguva dzose inofadza kuona. Saka vabereki vanofanirwa kutsanangura kuti ndezvipi zvemukati zvinofanirwa kuitwa nemwana kukwezva vateereri. Kuve inonakidza kutarisa kwakakosha mukuvaka purofiti brand uye pesvedzera bhizinesi.

Pamusoro pezvo uye zviri pachena, vana vazhinji havazive kana kuita hanya nehunyanzvi hwekugadzira zvemukati uye kuita mari nazvo. Ivo vanoziva kunyange isingasviki zero nezve mabatiro evashandi vanogadzira, maitiro ekutsvaga musika, uye manyorero ekubvunzurudza anowedzera mifananidzo yavo. Asi vabereki vavo vanodaro. Vashambadziri havabatanidzi zvakananga nevana vanofurira; ibasa revabereki.

Rutsigiro rwevabereki ndicho chinodiwa kuti mwana ave nyeredzi ine simba. Winckler anosimbisa kuti vana vanofurira havagone kushanda pasina kubatanidzwa kwevabereki, sezvo vabereki vanobata zvakanyanya kuseri kwezviitiko zvekugadzira zvemukati.

Vabereki vanofanira kuvimbisa kuti mwana wavo anozadzisa zvisungo zvekushambadzira, vachishandisa kutamba senzira yemaune yekuzadzisa zvinangwa zvakakomba. Mukati menzvimbo yemwana yakavakirwa magariro, umo mafaro nekushanda zvinosangana, vana vanogadzira zvirimo zvinowanzorairwa nevabereki nevashambadzi kuti vakwezve vaoni uye kuwana mari.

Zvisinei nedziviriro yemutemo yerusununguko rwevabereki mumutemo, pane pfungwa shoma dzedzidzo pazvinokonzeresa magariro uye kukakavara pamharadzano yemitemo, masimba evabereki, uye kugovana ruzivo rwepamhepo mumamiriro evanofurira vana. Vana vanosiiwa mumaoko evabereki vavo, avo vanotarisira kubudirira kwavo mune zvekutengeserana.

Kutamba, nokudaro, kunoshandurwa nemaune kuita chiito chekutengesa. Chinangwa ichi, chinosundwa nekuedza kwevabereki kuita zvinodiwa nevashambadziri, chinokanganisa kurudziro yemwana yekugadzira zvinhu uye huchokwadi hwekuita kwavo.

Kusaenzana kwesimba pakati pevanofurira vana nevabereki vavo kunopa kunetseka kukuru. Sezvo vana vachikura uye vachiwedzera kuziva nezvekuvapo kwavo kwedhijitari, vanoramba vachidzorwa nevabereki vavo, zvichimutsa mibvunzo nezve agency yavo chaiyo. Uku kutsamira kunosimudzira kumusoro-pasi simba kubva kumubereki kuenda kumwana. Zvinosuruvarisa, nyaya dzekushandiswa nekushungurudzwa, sedziya dzepamhuri dzevlogging senge 'DaddyOFive' uye 'FamilyOFive,' dzinoratidza kuti masimba evabereki akawandisa anogona kukanganisa kuzvitonga nekugara zvakanaka kwevana.

Kuzvimiririra mukugadzira munhu wako

Nepo vabereki vachiita basa rakakosha mukugadzirisa kuvepo kwemwana wavo pamhepo, pakupedzisira, chimiro chemwana ndicho chinowanzo fambisa kutengesa kwechigadzirwa.

Kana hunhu hwepamhepo hwemwana hukagadziriswa uye hwakasiyana nehupenyu hwavo hwekunze, zvinounza kuvhiringika pamusoro pekuzivikanwa kwavo chaiko. Sezvavanokura uye vachiedza kumisa hunhu hwavo, vana vanogona kunetseka kuyananisa iyo yakawedzeredzwa, inowanzoonekwa zvakanyanya online kuzivikanwa kuti ndivanaani muhupenyu chaihwo.

Pamusoro pezvo, vangangove vashandirwi, shamwari, kana vadyidzani vanogona kuumba pfungwa dzakagara dzagara dzichienderana nehunhu hwepamhepo hwemwana. Kusakwanisa kudzora kuti vanomiririrwa sei sevana kunogona kukanganisa kugona kwavo kutonga hukama hwemangwana maererano nematemu avo. Vamwe amai vevana vatatu vanofurira vana, mubvunzurudzo, vakaudza WIRED nezvevana vavo vane simba, 'Kana paine mazuva avari kutadza zvachose, havafanirwe kunge…Kunze kwekunge yabhadharwa. Ipapo vanofanira kunge varipo. Isu tinogara tine lollipop mazuva iwayo'.

Kuzvitonga kwezvimiso uku kunopesana nekuzvitonga kwechokwadi, zvichiratidza kuti sarudzo inogona kupesvedzerwa nevashambadziri kana zvisungo zvemunhu pane zvinodiwa nemwana ega.

Uyezve, kuongorora zvingangopesana zvinokurudzira vabereki nevana vanofurira zvinotenderwa. Ukama hwomubereki nomwana kazhinji kazhinji hwakafanana nemakwikwi esimba, vabereki vachiwanzoshandisa chiremera chikuru, kunyange zvazvo pesvedzero inogona kushanda kubva kumativi ose ari maviri.

Paradox 3: kuvanzika uye kubudirira

Kurwira pakati pekuve wakavhurika kubudirira uye kuchengetedza mwana akachengeteka pamhepo haingori chinhambwe chinonyengera; kwakafanana nokuedza kutasva mabhiza maviri uchienda kwakapesana.

Pamyeuoi, kana Pamela Hải Đường, mudiki anonzwa pasocial media kubva kuVietnam, anozivikanwa nekuvapo kwake kukuru pamhepo kunyangwe achingove mudiki. Rwendo rwake rwakatanga nevabereki vake, mupesvedzeri Salim uye muzvinabhizinesi Hải Long, avo vakagovana maonero ehupenyu hwake pasocial media. Izvo zvakatanga sezvinhu zvinofadza zvemhuri zvakakurumidza kubata kutarisisa kwemhando nekuda kwemukurumbira waPam, kunyanya pamapuratifomu akaita se Instagram uye TikTok, kwaanounganidza mamirioni ekudyidzana.

Kudyidzana kwemhando yaPam kwakatanga naye achiva chiso chezvigadziriso zvinyoro zveComfort, achibatanidza mufananidzo wake wakachena uye unoyevedza nehunhu hwemhando yemhuri. Kuvapo kwake mukushambadzira kwakatambanudzirwa kune makuru ma brand akadai saHuggies, Zara, UNIQLO, uye Crocs, kazhinji mukubatana naamai vake.

Kusanganiswa kwerunako rwake uye pesvedzero yevabereki vake kwaita kuti Pam ave munhu anotsvakwa muVietnam anopesvedzera kushambadzira mamiriro, achimuwanira mari yekumutsigira uye kutora chikamu mumakwikwi epamusoro-soro.

Pasinei nekubudirira kwake, vabereki vake vanotarisana nekuongororwa neruzhinji pamusoro pezvipimo zvehutsika zvekushandisa mufananidzo wemwana wavo kune zvekutengesa. Nekudaro, ivo vatora matanho ekudzivirira kuvanzika kwake vachitsvaga chiyero pakati pekugovana hupenyu hwake nekuita mari pamukurumbira wake.

Kana vabereki vakagovana hupenyu hwemwana wavo pamhepo kuti vavake mukurumbira, vanosiya chidimbu chekuvanzika kwemwana iyeye. Asi kana vakachengeta zvese zvakavanzika, havagone kusvika padanho rekuvhurika rinodiwa kuti ubudirire pasocial media. Mamiriro ekurasikirwa: Iwe haugone kuhwina munyika inokurudzira vana pasina kutumira zvirimo, asi kutumira kunoisa mwana munjodzi. Zvinyorwa zvinokoka traffic, traffic inokoka vateveri, uye vateveri vanounza zvibvumirano zvekutsigira.

Vabereki vanofurira vanobatwa mune gangaidzo iri nekuti vane mabasa maviri: chengetedza kuvanzika kwemwana wavo asiwo gadzira zvirimo kuti vavake kuvepo kwavo pamhepo. Kazhinji, rudzi urwu rwedambudziko rekuvanzika rinouya kana vanhu vaburitsa ruzivo rwemunhu, asi ne "kugovana" (vabereki vachigovana hupenyu hwevana vavo online), zvinotonyanya kunetsa.

Kugovera kunosanganisira kutumira mapikicha, nyaya, uye mavhidhiyo nezveupenyu hwemwana. Kazhinji yenguva, izvi hazvikuvadzi. Kana vana vava vapesvedzeri, izvi zvinotora imwe nhanho itsva—ikozvino, chiso nehupenyu hwemwana zvinova chiratidzo. Asi neizvi zvinouya mubvunzo mukuru: ingani yekuvanzika kwemwana inobayirwa mukurumbira?

Kunyange kugovera iri nyaya inopisa, isu hatisati tanyatsonzwisisa kuti vana vari munjodzi vari sei munzvimbo ino. Mubvunzo chaiwo watinofanira kubvunza ndewekuti: sei iyi gangaidzo yekuvanzika inoita kuti vana vanofurira vana vanyanye kunetseka? Uye zvinokanganisa sei hutano hwavo hwese pavanenge vachikura munzvimbo yedhijitari?

Fungidzira mwana achifamba patambo pakati pemukurumbira uye kuva wega. Pavanonyanya kutsamira pakubudirira, ndipo pavanonyanya kurasikirwa nekusaziva kwavo. Kuti tinyatsonzwisisa zviri kuitika, tinofanirwa kudzika-dzika mukati memaitiro ehunyengeri ari kutamba-kuti kuve panjodzi uye kuve kwechokwadi pamhepo kunopindirana nechinangwa chekuvaka mhando.

Kusagadzikana uye chokwadi

Vana, sevagari vedhijitari uye vatengi, vanotarisana nekusagadzikana kwakasarudzika munzvimbo yekushambadzira. Kuenzaniswa nevakuru, ivo vanotapukirwa nenjodzi dzenguva pfupi, dzemamiriro ezvinhu pavanenge vachifamba nenyika yepamhepo. Kusagadzikana uku kunowedzerwa apo vabereki vanoshambadzira mifananidzo yemwana wavo, kazhinji pasina mvumo yemwana, zvichimutsa kunetseka kwetsika kwakaoma.

Vana vanowanzove nesangano rakaganhurirwa pamusoro pekuti vabereki vanogovana sei ruzivo rwavo pamhepo, izvo zvinogona kuvaisa panjodzi nekusaziva. Kunyangwe nevavariro yakanaka yekugadzira zvemukati zvepamhepo, sevabereki vevana vanofurira, njodzi dzekuvanzika dziripo.

Kudhiraivha kwehuchokwadi hunoonekwa-kugovera ruzivo rwemunhu senge zita remwana, zera, uye zviitiko zvezuva nezuva-kunowedzera budiriro yevagadziri vemukati, asi nemubhadharo wekuwedzera njodzi dzekuvanzika. Kune vanofurira vana, uku kutsvaga kwechokwadi kunowanzo wedzera kusagadzikana kwavo.

Izvi zvinomutsa mubvunzo wakaoma: Ko mabhenefiti ekuvapo kwepamhepo, senge madhiri ekutsigira uye kuzadzisa zvinotarisirwa nevateereri, anodarika njodzi dzekuvanzika?

Kuita mari kune zvine chekuita nevana kunopawo bakatwa rinocheka nekwose. Kunyange kuvepo kwepamhepo kwakakosha kukwezva kudyidzana kwemhando, dziviriro yemutemo isina simba kune vanofurira vana inovasiya vari panjodzi yekutyisidzira kwakasiyana pamhepo. Izvi zvinosimbisa kudiwa kwekukurumidzira kwemutemo wakasimba unotaura nezvekuvanzika kwepamhepo kwevana.

Vana pavanopinda mukugadzira zvinhu zvemari, vanova vamiririri vekushamwaridzana, vachidzidza maitiro evatengi pakutanga. Nekudaro, maitiro aya anovaita kuti vanyanye kunetseka, kunyanya panguva dzekuita nhanho dzekuvapo kwavo online uye kushandisa.

3. Hatifaniri here kusiya vabereki vari voga pavanenge vachirera vana vavo?

Pakutanga, nharo yokuti vabereki vanofanira kusiiwa vari voga mukurera vana vavo inonzwa inokosha kunheyo dzorusununguko nokuzvimirira.

Mushure mezvose, mhuri dzagara dzichionekwa senzvimbo dzinoyera, uko kutonga kwekunze kusina nzvimbo kunze kwekunge paine kukuvadza kuri pachena. Asi kana hupenyu hwemwana hwashandurwa kuita nhevedzano yezvinyorwa zve Instagram kana mavhidhiyo eYouTube, isu hatisisiri kupupurira nguva dzakavanzika dzekurera - tiri kuita chiitiko paruzhinji.

Izvi zvinotisvitsa kumubvunzo wakadzama: Zvinorevei kurera mwana munyika umo miganhu pakati pevoruzhinji neyakavanzika iri kupera? Nenzira yetsika, uduku hwave huri nguva yokukura kwomunhu oga, nhambo yedziviriro kubva kuzvinhu zvakakasharara zvenyika yavakuru. Nekufumura vana kunhandare isingaregereri yekuonekwa kwepamhepo, tiri kuvabira nzvimbo yakakosha yebudiriro here?

Vamwe vanogona kukakavara kuti mukutenda kwakanaka, vabereki, vanoziva vana vavo zvakanyanya, vane kodzero yekufamba munzvimbo iyi sezvavanoona zvakakodzera. Asi kuna Rousseau, uyo akasimbisa kuti uduku rutivi rwakasiyana rwoupenyu runofanira kudzivirirwa padzvinyiriro dzavakuru, iwoyo ndiwo murangariro wemarara.

Vanhu havawani nemashiripiti ruzivo rwese rwunodiwa nevabereki uye huzivi pavanobereka mwana wavo munyika ino. Vabereki, pasinei nevavariro dzavo dzakanaka, vasingazivi vangapinza vana vavo mugadziriro inoisa pokutanga zvavanoda uye maonero pane kukura kwechokwadi kwomunhu oga.

Kunongova nevatambi vakawanda zvikuru vemabhaisikopo evana vanopedza makore vachibudisa nhamo iyo mukurumbira wapakuvamba wakaunzira kwavari, nguva zhinji inowedzerwa zvikuru nebetsero yavabereki vavo. Vabereki havawanzoziva zvakanyanya. Influencer vana vanogona kunge vachitevera. Chimbomira nemabhururu.

Uku hakusi kupomera vabereki mhosva asi kubvunza kuti:

Vari kufamba nehurongwa hwakagadzirirwa kugara zvakanaka kwemwana here kana kuti hwakagadziridzwa kuita purofiti uye kubatikana?

Uye kana iri iyo yekupedzisira, isu, senzanga, hatina here musengwa wetsika kudzivirira vana kubva pakuva chigadzirwa?

Vana, nemasikirwo avo, havana mukana wekubvuma kuve chikamu chechiitiko ichi. Havakwanisi kunyatsonzwisisa mhedzisiro yenguva refu yekukura online. Kana vabereki vavo vasingavabetseri uye nzanga yakafuratira, zvino ndiani achadaro?

Pane here zvipi nezvipi zvakanaka zvakasarudzika izvo kutora chikamu mukushambadza kunopa mukukura kwemwana?

Sezvo The Truman Show inoswedera kumagumo, Truman anozopedzisira asununguka kubva kunyika yakagadzirwa iyo yakamubata kwenguva yakareba. Anobuda mububble rekugadzira raidzora zvese zvehupenyu hwake uye mune zvisingazivikanwe, pakupedzisira achitora rusununguko rwake. Asi vana vakarerwa muzera ranhasi redhijitari vangambotarisira kuita zvimwe chetezvo here?

Kusiyana naTruman, ivo havana kukiyiwa mune yenyama dome, asi hupenyu hwavo hwese hwakanyorwa munzvimbo yakakura, isinganzvengeki yeinternet. Iyo yedhijitari tsoka inosiiwa nemakore ezvinyorwa ndeyekusingaperi, ichigadzira zvitupa zvavo nenzira dzavangave vasinganzwisise kusvika vakura. Vanokura nemamiriyoni evanhu vavasingazivi vachiziva mazita avo, zviso, uye kunyange zvinhu zvomunhu oga zvoupenyu hwavo—vateereri vavasina kumbobvuma kuvaraidzwa.

Mubvunzo ndewokuti: Vachave nemukana wakafanana waTruman wekufamba? Vana ava vanogona here kudzoreredza pfungwa yekuvanzika uye kuzvitonga, kana kuti vakasungwa nekusingaperi kune vanhu vepamhepo vakasikirwa ivo nevamwe?

Zvichida rimwe zuva vachasununguka kubva kune chaiyo dome iyo zvino yakomberedza hudiki hwavo. Asi kusiyana naTruman, ivo vanozoda kurwira nehuchokwadi hwakaoma hwenyika inorangarira kudzvanya kwese, kutumira kwese, uye vhidhiyo yese.

Ryan, achirova kuyaruka kwake muna 2025, achiri kutumira mavhidhiyo zuva nezuva.

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